Why Do I Read Erotic Stories?

Some of us have been nurtured to have a room of our own away from the private room and dangerous-to-the-ear sounds that our parents’ room emit. If it doesn’t bother you to imagine your parents doing the deed – well, I do. Some of you may have been curious what has been happening to the other room that you are so tempted to peek. Not to spy on your folks, of course! But admit it, once in your libido-driven days, you gave in to the opportunity of peeking what your roommate was enjoying that night.

Wise people say: “curiosity kills the cat.” Well, we don’t want to get killed nor we are cats! As adults, we have the propensity to compare our romancing skills with colleagues, associates and peers. At your legal age, the ethical professional person that you are, it would be a shame to catch you to be a peeping Tom.

Reading online erotic stories are just the solution. You may end up wondering if what you have read is true but nevertheless, it eliminates the danger of you being caught peeping your room mate’s night-time sack activities. We cannot also discount the fact that we discover things that are possible to do and well, expect that the next time you had the opportunity, you will eventually try to do the same, right?

By reading these type of stories, our brain is stimulated to develop neurons. It enhances our imagination and triggers our dopamine receptors. Ok…That’s a technical term. Dopamine are brain chemicals that gives you that good feeling. Yes. The same feeling you felt when you released all that pent-up heat that you have collected that week. It is also the same feeling that is evoked when you light up that first cigarette in the morning or drink that fresh brewed coffee. Reading erotic stories are like reading porn magazines without actually buying them. Isn’t that a good thing? You save up on your money, and still get sexually energized from the story you have read.

You also get new ideas that can make your night-time or romancing activities bloom, or let’s just say, be productive! What an exciting way to get your hormones raging! By simply reading one story, you may want to have the love of your life beside you and that adds spice to the relationship. Your mate will always be wondering where you get your bedroom skills, especially when you have projected to be the busy, serious type of person that you are.

Like food, we don’t need to be stuck in one and the same flavor everyday. We just have to experiment, and by reading these adult blogs, we are able to gain new insights to the enormous possibilities of working on that faltering relationship. Little information is a dangerous thing, so, go on! Give in! Read to get that spicy information to test later!

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Is There Any Difference Between Erotic Cinema, Sexy Reality TV Or Porn?

Before I was able to secure funding to write, produce, and direct indie feature films I started in reality programming. I created the America’s Wildest Bachelor Parties (AWBP) reality series. I enjoyed distribution success with it and was able to launch Slice of Americana Films. I consider myself a passionate screenwriter, producer, and director. But I also like to create fun and sexy entertainment.

I have been working with the same editor, Tim Beachum aka The SEO Bully, for close to 7 years. In that time he and I both get approached from time to time by friends or friends of friends outside of the entertainment industry that want to get into the porn industry. The pitch usually is the same. They have access to hot looking talent, a sweet location, and money to budget the shoot.

I was in Virginia Beach at a bar with Tim we were having a few brews when the waitress kept looking at me kind of funny. A couple of rounds later she asked me, “If I was really a porn producer from California?” Tim started laughing. He knows I do not dig it when people get the wrong information. That is why he kept laughing.

I asked where she heard that, the owner of the place showed her trailers for America’s Wildest Bachelor Parties and Fantasy Striptease Private Shows I had produced. She had won a battle of the g-string contest on the beach recently and thought there was more money in adult entertainment. She got $500 for winning the contest and showing her entire self to a rowdy crowd.

Like a scene out of a bad movie, Tim introduces me to the owner, and decides to have a good laugh at my expense. The owner pitches me on producing a porno movie at a beach house he owns. I always try to be polite in these situations with a “thanks, but no thanks” type of response, especially when the buckets of ice beer, top-shelf shots, and food are on the house. I told him I did not do adult entertainment, not because any moral stand, it just wasn’t my thing.

He had watched America’s Wildest Bachelor Parties California and Las Vegas editions on VOD and Fantasy Striptease Private Shows on DVD. He told me they were porn in his eyes. Tim knew what my response was going to be, he has heard me tell me other people many times. AWBP and Fantasy Striptease are on Amazon.com, that company does not sell porn. There are no sex scenes or simulated sex scenes depicted. AWBP is a fun reality series like Jersey Shore. There is drinking, strippers, nudity, and tons of laughs. The famous “tequila booty shot” was invented on camera with AWBP: CA by us. Fantasy Striptease is what I like to call tasteful erotic cinema with high production value.

Fantasy Striptease Private Shows – Sexy pin-up girls from your dreams come to life on screen. Six beautifully filmed vignettes blur the line between reality and fantasy. Hot Little Red Riding Hood, Naughty School Girl, Sexy CEO, Summer Girl, Latina Bikini Model, and Fiery Red Devil want to give you a point of view private show you won’t forget.

So tastefully filmed you can watch it alone or with that special someone. This DVD is a modern twist on vintage pin-up beauties. A sizzling soundtrack was added to enhance viewing enjoyment. This is one romantic journey you’ll watch over and over. Hell, I know for a fact the soundtrack is getting played in cars from So Cal to NY because the artists on it are spreading the word.

Even my good friend Tim thinks those titles could fall into the porn category.
I still disagree on that. When Playboy TV was interested in acquiring the rights for America’s Wildest Bachelor Parties I had a meeting at their production offices in LA. The executive I met with dug the concept, wanted to move forward, BUT needed me to include sex scenes and a cameo by a famous porn star in each episode.

Honestly, I do not know if I made the right call on passing working with Playboy TV, money is money after all. General deal points were discussed that included a guaranteed 3 episodes upfront, if it played well, they would produce 10 episodes each season at a fixed budget. I would act as the creative producer at a salary per episode. Their in-house production team and editing staff would do the rest. The LA production offices are designed to be efficient and crank out content. In no way is it glitzy at this location.

I still continue to pass on offers to direct and produce adult entertainment for newcomers with cash and a couple of the big companies in Chatsworth. I also pass on offers to direct mainstream indie films that I know are not going to work. I guess I still have not become a total mercenary for hire. I won’t commit to working on another production company’s project unless I genuinely like the script and producers involved. That is why I like taking ghostwriting and script doctor gigs. My name only appears on the check.

It would be interesting to get comments on what people think the differences are between erotic cinema, sexy reality program, and porn. Or if there really is any difference like I think there is. I do include nudity in indie films if it fits the story. My last two movies were about drug money, street power, and sex. So, it seemed a natural fit to have a couple of racy scenes between characters. One of my films Consignment does have one of the longest and top rated striptease scenes in cinema history. This is indie filmmaker Sid Kali typing SMASH CUT:

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New Adult Romance Ideas To Spark That Passion

If you are looking for a new way to tease your lover in a romantic way, it might be a good time to have a romantic night in. Brainstorming about adult romance ideas can be tough, but it also can be rewarding. Not able to come up with any romantic night ideas, or any bedroom romance possibilities? Try out some of the following new adult romance ideas to help bring passion into your life.

Drop some candies in a trail leading to the bedroom, with a note attached mentioning a super sweet treat waiting at the end of the candy trail. Add a little bit of whipped cream, some cherries, and you will have a romantic adult dessert that your lover will adore.

If you haven’t already, go on a shopping spree at a sex shop, and try out your new toys once you arrive at back at your home. Indulge in everything from sexy outfits, to videos, to new handbooks full of sex tips, to more unconventional and kinky toys.

For wild couples, why not attend a nudist event? The laid back atmosphere, along with the sight of your lover’s naked body all day long is sure to please you. For the most romantic atmospheres, make an effort to look for secluded beaches, deserts, and forests near you.

Did you know that it is scientifically proven that the smell of a partner’s sweat will turn you on? Join a gym for the healthiest kind of foreplay around. This might not sound like an adult romance idea, but after watching your beloved work out, you’ll beg to differ.

One longtime favorite adult romance idea of many couples is to play dress up for an exciting sexual escapade. Buy a sexy costume, and become your partner’s fantasy tonight!

Ever wonder what it feels like to be a model? Spice up your bedroom romance by having your own personal photo shoot. Take turns with your partner taking erotic photos of each other, and then admire them later.

The Japanese Yakuza came up with an erotic way to spice up a sushi dinner – by eating it off a beautiful woman. This is a great way to enjoy your lover’s beautiful body.

Overall, the key to a great adult romance idea is to combine fantasy with reality. Adding a twist to the daily humdrum is all you need to do in order to have a romantic night you won’t soon forget.

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Erotic Vacations

Okay, so what exactly is an erotic vacation? Well, to put it bluntly, it’s a sex vacation. Have you ever heard of swinging? Swinging is married couples that have sex with other people. A lot of people find this morally wrong. It all depends on your point of view.

America is very prudish when it comes to sex. There are very few public places where nudity is allowed, and prostitution is mostly illegal. There are exceptions to this of course; Florida and Nevada come to mind. In Florida there are public beaches where nudity is allowed. And in parts of Nevada, prostitution is legal.

I know that my views on nudity and sex are not the norm in America. I like nude beaches. And I hold the belief that two consenting adults should be able to choose who they have sex with. And as a woman, I get severely annoyed when a man can mow the lawn without his shirt on, but a woman would get arrested for doing the same thing.

If you care to travel to other countries, not only is prostitution legal, but they actually have resorts themed around sex. Yes, there are resorts that you can go to, where you choose the type of girl along with the type of room you want. If you are a couple, you can even choose a bisexual girl. Now that would be one hot, sizzling, vacation!

But what if you don’t want to travel out of the United States? Well, the only place I know of in the states where prostitution is legal, is in Nevada. They have legal brothels there, but as far as I know they are only for men, not for women or for couples. Very prudish attitude indeed.

So, in the states we have swing clubs. Nope, this is not the place where you go to practice your golf swing. This is the place where you go to swap partners. A lot of people have what they call open marriages, where they will have sex with someone other than their spouse. The spouse is aware of this, as a matter of fact, they are having sex with someone else also. It is still considered a taboo subject in the states, and a lot of people who practice this do not make it public knowledge, because of that taboo. But, there are entire clubs and organizations built around this concept. These used to be underground, backdoor, types of places. But since it is becoming a more common practice, these types of events are now being held at luxurious hotels.

I don’t know how Americans became such sex prudes, probably has to do with our Quaker ancestry. But even in the Bible sex was allowed, and not always between married couples. Just because you are married to someone does not mean that is the only person you can have sex with for the rest of your life, if you and your spouse both agree to this practice. The bad part about having sex with someone who is not your spouse is the cheating part.

It is my opinion that sex is not distasteful. What is distasteful to me, is the need some people have to hide sex. If it weren’t for sex, none of us would be here. And no, I don’t think sex should be just for procreation, how about just for fun? I also don’t think sex should be seedy. How, and with whom, you choose to have sex is your own business, as long as no one is getting hurt, and if your idea of fun sex is different from mine, I am OK with that.

Erotic vacations, or sex vacations, are not for everyone. Some people find this topic very distasteful. But hey, that’s okay with me because I find mushrooms distasteful. See, it’s all in your point of view. So, if you would like to learn more about erotic vacations, or if, like me, you do not find sex distasteful, follow the link.

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Erotic Dating – How to Plan the Perfect Erotic Date

Dating should be the easiest thing to do, but as you all know too well it isn’t; you have to find someone you like to go out with, make sure you look good on your date, impress them and hope for a second date. Erotic dating also requires similar elements, if you want it to be mind-blowing. So once you’ve found the lucky individual you want to bed, you must remember to plan and prepare.

Don’t worry; this isn’t a scary process where you spend hours and hours planning; it’s simply the part where you decide where you and your date spend the night, or hour in some cases. Ask yourself; is it safe to bring them back to yours? If yes, then make sure your bedroom/bathroom is moderately clean, that includes clean bed sheets and make sure no one walks in on you. If home isn’t the place, then a hotel maybe, but before you meet, agree on who is going to book a room and who is going to pay for it. Some of you may even prefer the great outdoors or in a car, whatever you choose, find a deserted location not a busy high street. When you’ve got the location sorted, arrange a suitable place and time to meet.

First impressions count, yes even when you are erotic dating, and smelling good equal’s bonus points. Ladies, don’t forget the saucy lingerie. As the host, kindly offer your date a drink, may something to nibble before you get down to the kinky stuff, this helps to break the ice. Guys, make sure you compliment your date as this could get you further than you think; words create a big impact, so remember to flirt, a little dirty talk never harmed anyone. The most important piece of advice would be the age old one, be yourself; nobody wants to hear you brag on about your lifestyle and how well you’re doing, just keep it simple.

After you’ve had your drinks and broken the ice, you may official start your erotic date. If you’re holding the date at home, scented candles or a shared bubble bathroom would help set the mood. Make sure you stroke, caress and fondle each other in all the right places; foreplay is a must, as it makes the actual intercourse a million times better; try out different positions for a better sensation. A thing to note: agree on what your both is willing to do and what is a no-go zone and also, consider contraception; none wants a unexpected surprise after one encounter, so it’s better to be safe than sorry.

So there you have it folks, the perfect guide for erotic dating; who knows, you might have bagged yourself another steamy session with the individual, or may be they’ve recommended your adult dating and bedroom skills to their friends. Enjoy!

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